and '9b8562d09e23badb58dadcedb61bb9a6fa446e6a'

Update PeerState.java to use CachedIteratorAbstract
Add some debugging lines to determine cause(s) of higher udp.sendFailed/sendAggressiveFailed stats

minor efficiency improvements in parsing

log tweaks

     and 'df5322d83c1545129c9ed8f3e2dc5378ffb1b4a3'

Use timer to delay close after sending termination
Prevent sending more data after termination

Implement variable timeout
Hardcode handshake bytes
Log tweaks

Log tweaks

Log tweaks

it's already disabled at the session level, but in case we change it later

     and 'a6dc0bea5ee5569b71fa349be025d6a027d46a09'